Woman who looked ‘pregnant’ told to have baby by doctors at 15 to cure agony

A 21-year-old woman from Scunthorpe, Lincolnshire, who suffered from severe bloating that made her appear pregnant, was reportedly advised by doctors that having a baby could alleviate her pain. Grace Almey has struggled with painful and prolonged periods since she was young, lasting up to three weeks at a time. Despite seeking medical help and trying various contraceptives, her condition persisted. Grace shared her experience, recalling, “From the get-go, I had really heavy periods and they were really painful.” She added that at age 15, doctors suggested having a baby as a possible remedy, a sentiment she found troubling.

Moreover, Grace encountered back pain, gastrointestinal issues, and hair loss this year, yet her condition remained undiagnosed. It wasn’t until she underwent a laparoscopy, initially to detect endometriosis, that she was diagnosed with adenomyosis—a condition where the womb’s inner lining grows into its muscular wall. Grace expressed her disappointment, stating, “He said we didn’t find any endometriosis… then he said we think you have a condition called adenomyosis.” The only permanent solution to alleviate her pain, as per doctors’ advice, is a hysterectomy, which would stop her periods and prevent her from conceiving.

Grace is now exploring holistic approaches like avoiding alcohol and highly processed foods to manage her symptoms and has been referred for pelvic floor physiotherapy to address muscle tightness contributing to her pain. Coping with her condition day by day, Grace acknowledges the possibility of a hysterectomy in the future as the only way to “cure” her condition. She remarked, “It’s bittersweet to know there is something to help but it’s not possible at a young age. I’ve got to live with this until I’m willing to have a hysterectomy.” Grace’s journey highlights the challenges faced by many women with gynaecological issues and the importance of comprehensive medical care in addressing such conditions to improve patients’ quality of life.