Martin and Shirlie Kemp have shared their secrets for keeping the romance alive in a relationship, especially when children are in the picture. The couple, who have been married for over 30 years, emphasize the importance of fun, putting away gadgets, and appreciating each other to avoid taking one another for granted. Martin and Shirlie, known for their roles in iconic bands Spandau Ballet and Wham!, have two children – musician and singer, Harley Moon, 34, and broadcaster Roman, 31. They often showcase public displays of affection towards each other, amusing their kids.
To assist other couples in rekindling their romantic spark, Martin and Shirlie have partnered with easyJet Holidays to promote its ‘Rekindle the Romance’ package. The package offers additional romantic touches such as day spa visits, candlelit dinners, and champagne on arrival with certain holiday bookings. Martin expressed how easy it is for romance to fizzle, especially when balancing adult children seeking advice and managing daily responsibilities like after-school activities and chores. Shirlie added that they go on multiple trips a year to stay connected, and they’ve enjoyed sharing their experiences to help others maintain passion in long-term relationships.
A recent poll highlighted the top ‘passion killers’ in relationships with children, including lack of sleep, messy homes, and never-ending meal planning. A significant 81% of respondents believed that parenting duties affect the romantic spark, with only 20% regularly going on date nights. Despite these challenges, a majority of parents (62%) are eager to reignite the spark, with nearly half planning quality mini-breaks together. Popular romantic getaway destinations include Sorrento, Santorini, Nice, Madeira, and the Algarve.
Matt Callaghan, COO at easyJet Holidays, acknowledged the struggles parents face in prioritising their relationship amidst various responsibilities. The company aims to provide opportunities for couples to reconnect and rejuvenate their relationships with their Autumn getaways. By offering parents a chance to unwind without distractions, easyJet Holidays hopes to support couples in nurturing their love and connection.